As many of you know, one of my all-time favorite books is The Noticer, by Andy Andrews. In it, Andy shares about experiences with a mysterious man (I’d say angel) named Jones…known for being able to offer fresh perspective on life. I’ve read the book five times, and each time, I get something new out of it. I love how God uses the power of story to teach us lessons.
Lately, I’ve been challenged by a few issues and needed some fresh perspective. I spent time with one of my mentors and walked away from that discussion with a whole new outlook on things. Here are a few of my takeaways from that much-needed conversation:
1. Never, ever underestimate your power in encouraging others-We know the power of community. The power of prayer. The power of faith. But we often forget the power of an encouraging word. Life was spoken into me when I heard “there is no one more capable of fixing this situation than you.” Having people in our corner isn’t only wonderful–it’s necessary. A lot of people have gone further than they thought they could because someone else believed in them.
2. Be willing to learn-When we begin to struggle with a situation, there’s usually something involved where we don’t want to give in, don’t want to let go, or are unwilling to see the other side. When I saw how I can learn not just one thing, but several things, my whole attitude changed because I’m not losing…I am actually gaining, as long as I’m willing to look for the lessons.
3. We can’t base our self-assurance on the whims others– Ever feel like you go around the Same mountain over and over (and over) again? I don’t consider myself a people-pleaser, but I do need to have wins, and do fall prey to caring too much what others think (and judging my actions too carefully). Carrying the weight of our own expectations can be exhausting. It’s so much easier when we remind ourselves that God is our strong tower. Our provider. And that He has a plan for us. Jeremiah 29:11
4. Be thankful, even on the hard days-Isn’t it amazing how being thankful for the good things in our lives helps overshadow the tough patches? Even on my worst days, I still have a job that I love, a roof over my head, friends and family who keep me grounded, and a Father who adores me. We are truly blessed.
What thoughts do you run back to when a little perspective is needed?