Not too long ago, I decided to get radical. I changed jobs, I’m starting a new business, and I found several ways to get my hands dirty. All of this change excites me and energizes me. But nothing could prepare me for what’s been the hardest part of leadership I’ve encountered thus far.
And that is the move from Quarterback to Coach. It’s working through the emotions of realizing you are no longer “do-er”. It’s being aware that a certain amount of pride was tied to all that hard work, and a “win” now looks different. And it’s getting real with yourself about how to feel successful as priorities change.
There comes a point in a career path where people move from getting the work done themselves to overseeing a team of amazing people who do the work. In my previous role where I lead a team, I still had parts of every project that were my responsibility. With this job change, things are different. I’m responsible for much, but less involved in the day to day projects; something I realize now how much I liked.
I quickly learned there is no class or course, or chat with someone older and wiser that prepares a doer with how to turn that off. I’ve watched peers fail at moving to the coaching position and know it results in demotivated staff, nervous leadership, and early departures of qualified employees. Knowing that potential for failure made me eager to overcome this hurdle and build a team of excited, hungry players who want to win together.
I wish there were five tips I could list for how to make this transition easy. I’m still in the thick of learning it (and sometimes, struggling with it). But I know the struggle means the results will be better. Honoring the MVP has always been easy. Stepping off the field…that takes a whole new set of skills.
What has been the hardest part of leadership for you? How’d you break through?